Thursday, January 28, 2010

Does Society Dictate What Person You Should Date?



   Do people listen to society to help them find that special person?  

     I hope not I really believe that you should fall inlove and make your choice based on your heart.  Now do not get me wrong some types of people we should cut ties with and just chalk it up to experience.  I believe 5 good characters someone should be able to see and not feel like oh no this is aweful, what have I done?
  1.     How that person treats you emtionally,mentally physically and spritually.
  2.     If you can see yourself with them in 20 years and still be happy.
  3.     Does this person have history that you have to accept and deal with. Ex: Divorced, Children, Criminal past, Drugs,and or alchol.
  4.     Do you feel comfortable in public with this person just in a general setting such as; Mall, Park, Stores etc.
  5.      Do You Truly Love this person and can see past all those faults and truly Love that person for them?
  Now that is not cold rock hard stone things must be but, as far as giving yourself a start it helps.  Society sometimes does influence or choices not always in a negative light but, it does tend to sway some things.   The road less traveled is not always the easiest route.

    Another thing that causes people to break up is family. That's a whole other issue but, if you find that person life has it's hard and tough roads already. It would be ashame to let the person you wanted go because of something other people do not like. 
 Go out there and grab that woman or man and make your life just that much better!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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