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Does Society Dictate What Person You Should Date?

   Do people listen to society to help them find that special person?  

     I hope not I really believe that you should fall inlove and make your choice based on your heart.  Now do not get me wrong some types of people we should cut ties with and just chalk it up to experience.  I believe 5 good characters someone should be able to see and not feel like oh no this is aweful, what have I done?

1.     How that person treats you emtionally,mentally physically and spritually.
2.     If you can see yourself with them in 20 years and still be happy.
3.     Does this person have history that you have to accept and deal with. Ex: Divorced, Children, Criminal past, Drugs,and or alchol.
4.     Do you feel comfortable in public with this person just in a general setting such as; Mall, Park, Stores etc.
5.      Do You Truly Love this person and can see past all those faults and truly Love that person for them?

  Now that is not cold rock hard stone things must be but, as far as giving yourself a start it helps.  Society sometimes does influence or choices not always in a negative light but, it does tend to sway some things.   The road less traveled is not always the easiest route.

    Another thing that causes people to break up is family. That's a whole other issue but, if you find that person life has it's hard and tough roads already. It would be ashame to let the person you wanted go because of something other people do not like. 
 Go out there and grab that woman or man and make your life just that much better!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Dating not always traditional!!!

  Can you imagine meeting your future husband at a candy store?   What about at Wal-Mart?  Is it hard to believe you can meet your future spouse in the unlikest places?
     Do women think that ideally you will meet a successful businessman in a elegant resturant?  Do men believe their future wife will be as pure as the driven snow untouched by a man and, faithful only to him and her first everything?
      Like this title says "Dating is not always traditional" and that is true. Chat lines you can find love, speed dating, the internet, anime convetions etc.  Love has no boundaries and does not matter where you meet. I used to believe that I would fall in love with a successful military or businessman and be set for life. Reality set in very quick.
       Women sometimes and this is just my thought think their standards should either be so high or settle so low.  If they are to high no man will ever meet every standard and requirement you want. To low you get a man who is not even remotely acceptable to even bring around your friends let alone your family.
        For all the people thinking I will never find that special man or woman? Remember be flexible enough to let your standards come down but not all the way till you feel like you are settling for anyone who will have you.
         Get out there and don't just focus on pretty or handsome or looks so much. Try to find a lot of commonalities and why you may or may not want to love this person?