Is Dating to Slow, and Marriage happens to fast?

   Is there a set timeframe for how long to date?  Why do women sometimes feel the need to marry fast?  Are there some women who wait to long? Do men really have commitment issues?

         The list of questions goes far to long and has to many side questions. I know that women still want men to open doors, pull out chairs and be a true gentlemen. Is that happening now? If you look around just where you live at how young men dress and some of the young ladies you think Wow!   I know  I do when youn teen men have their pants dropping way below their waistline hmmmmm??  Why??? Or young teen women showing so much chest or their undergarments when they bend over clearly showing hmmmmm?  

     I will not say expression in your clothes is wrong no. However; if a girl or grown woman feels the only way to attract a man is to display all the goods what is the point?  Some men may like that for a time but, will the future mother-in-law be comfortable saying my son made the best choice.   Likewise if a woman brings her future husband  who she wants to her father. Will the father say I know my daughter will be taken care of and he will support my daughter in the way I have?

   Too many times I believe divorce comes from not spending enough time toghether in the dating phase and running straight into the marriage position. Never rush donot be so picky or too lax that you cannot give yourself the best start to a great relationship all the way to marriage.

  Go and find that person. If you already have that person let them know how you feel and that they did make the right choice chosing you!!!!!